How to Achieve Anything

How to Achieve Anything

Achieving big goals is not easy.  It is challenging, takes perseverance and a clear vision.  Those things seem apparent.  The biggest mistake most of us make is that we jump right into the “how” of what we want to create.   Emotions and values that drive us are much...
4 Tips on How to Keep those Resolutions

4 Tips on How to Keep those Resolutions

I love every new year where renewal seems so possible in our lives.  This year, entering 2021 feels like a poignant new year.  Since all the usual norms have gone out the window, and the whole world feels like it is undergoing a significant change, it opens up that...
The dirty secret about self-confidence

The dirty secret about self-confidence

The dirty secret of self-confidence is that no one believes that they are self-confident. Think of someone who exudes confidence. You can bet that person rarely sees themselves that way.   In fact, most people are surprised to hear that they come off as confident. ...
The fallacy of your perfect future self

The fallacy of your perfect future self

 I have spent a good part of my life, believing that life will be better once I reach x milestone.   I was mindlessly chasing something, living how I was “supposed” to with a career, kids, house, husband.  I was living this life of pressured perfectionism, that...