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Your brain’s job is to filter “reality.” 

Your brain’s job is to filter “reality.” 

I love to listen to podcasts when I walk my dog. The other day, I noticed that I missed an entire interview portion when I relistened to a segment.  I was surprised I had NO memory of that segment of the conversation.  Thinking back, I realized that I must have been...

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Perfectionism is a response to fear. 

Perfectionism is a response to fear. 

Imperfections are beautiful Being perfect is a dangerous idea.  Instagram filters may help us decide what perfect means, but of course, this is ridiculous.  And let’s be honest, most of us find the imperfections of life beautiful, the knobby tree, the weather-worn...

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Not being enough is a sneaky sentiment

Not being enough is a sneaky sentiment

Striving to be enough is an exhausting motivator. We can go through our lives trying to prove something to the world, proving that we are enough.  Believing that we need to be more feels like an important motivator.  This belief that we need to be in a perpetual state...

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What your body and your psyche “deserves.”

What your body and your psyche “deserves.”

What if we wiped this whole question of whether you “deserve” something off the table?  Every time you hear yourself asking this question, tell yourself that this is the wrong question.  Replace the sentence with “Do I want this?”  and a follow-up question is “Why do I want this”?  

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Change the story first, then you can quit the habit

Change the story first, then you can quit the habit

Quitting should be easy, right?  You stop doing the thing.  Stop smoking, stop over drinking, stop eating after one cookie.  It should take less energy, not more, to quit the prolonged smoking or drinking rituals.    So why is it so freaking hard to stop doing these...

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How to Achieve Anything

How to Achieve Anything

Achieving big goals is not easy.  It is challenging, takes perseverance and a clear vision.  Those things seem apparent.  The biggest mistake most of us make is that we jump right into the “how” of what we want to create.   Emotions and values that drive us are much...

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